Demanding females, or is it the question of pressure of being used, and making people happy is trust
0edit: Guess one more thing i forgot to say. Being needy is often characterized as unattractive. (exception may be roleplaying games with people close... but just interms of livelihood philosophy and such)
But dont hook up with a hipster, their low energy sucks.
Overall, there is a distinction between demanding and "unsure" i think so bossyness i guess is natural form of earning that trust, although its considered unattractive behavior but its rules for some, depends how well one adapts or care that much.
And then there is cliches, fat bearded stupid guy with a wife, boring TV dramas or sitcoms on "oooh geeeh lets save our marriage" i hate that stuff on TV
But feel free to discuss!
In a sense i think George Lucas has a overall good philosophy of "Joy vs Pleasure" so be sure to look it up if you wish to, may not be a Star Wars fan, but it is good aspect of "Legit joy that lasts over time, vs pleasure that vanishes the moment you do it"