Forgiving Your Enemies Is Achievable, But With Smug Side Effects
0When you get an upgrade in life, you SHOULD be feeling a sense of TRIUMPH over your HATERS and your ENEMIES. I put into question which can be more damaging in the long run? Hanging onto the VICTIM thing even when your doing well and escaped trouble...or...Being overly indulgent in smugness due to your sense of triumph over trouble and over your enemies? I talk about how the way to somewhat forgiving your enemies comes from an awareness that maybe your enemies DID YOU A FAVOR by setting into motion the stuff that happened to you that sucked. I argue that in some cases, being overly indulgent in the smugness that comes from this realization can be regarded as a lesser evil...yet ...sometimes , excessive smugness can cause you t o be too obsessed with wanting to flip off your enemies from across the chasm. Maybe that should be done in moderation..but...hell...its still better than being one of those jerks who want to cling to BEING A PERPETUAL VICTIM , even when things are going well.