DEALING WITH UNREASONABLE PEOPLE: NAVIGATING LIFE WITH TOXIC FAMILY
272Toxic family dynamics can result in generations with unreasonable people. \n\nTrying to cope with a person is sometimes like trying to share a jail cell with a complete stranger.\n\nIt almost seems impossible to get through.\n\nThe unreasonable person may have learned this behavior from a toxic family system or has developed it on their own.\n\nEither way, unreasonable people are very difficult to live life with because:\n-everything has to be their way, \n-they never want to adjust to the needs of other people, \n-they are entitled in overwhelming, \n-they often think of themselves higher than they ought to, and \n-they can sometimes be labeled a bully.\n\nIn this live chat, I discussed the psychology of unreasonable people and how they negatively impact your life.\n----------------------
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#trauma #tamarahilllpc #TOXICFAMILY
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 Intro
1:04 introduction has tech issues
15:00 SKIP TECH ISSUES HERE!
17:40 you live to serve them
23:53 HOSTILITY & DIFFICULTY WITH OTHERS
44:37 unreasonable people as neurotic personality style
50:50 unreasonable people lack self-awareness
56:56 having to manage the fallout of entitlement
1:03:00 PSYCHOLOGICAL ENTITLEMENT ("entitlement mentality")
*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Live Chat (research & further information):
1. Intergenerational Risk of Parentification and Infantilization to Externalizing Moderated by Child Temperament
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6860925/
2. Parenting Characteristics and Callous-Unemotional Traits in Children Aged 0–6 Years: A Systematic Narrative Review
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10578-023-01634-6
3. Heritable and non-heritable pathways to early callous-unemotional behaviors
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5008992/
4. Heritable and Nonheritable Pathways to Early
Callous-Unemotional Behaviors
https://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/pdf/10.1176/appi.ajp.2016.15111381
5. The Heritability of Callous and Unemotional Traits
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/surviving-the-female-psychopath/202305/the-heritability-of-callous-and-unemotional-traits
6. Mommy Dearest movie https://youtu.be/xfks96rXxq8?si=EFDpDfe9nqt1rWR4
7. Scharp K. M., Hall E. D. (2017). Family marginalization, alienation, and estrangement: Questioning the nonvoluntary status of family relationships. Annals of the International Communication Association, 41(1), 28–45. https://doi.org/10.1080/23808985.2017.1285680
8. Agllias, K. (2016). Disconnection and decision-making: Adult children explain their reasons for estranging from parents. Australian Social Work, 69(1), 92-104.
9. Hank, K., & Steinbach, A. (2023). Sibling estrangement in adulthood. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 40(4), 1277-1287. https://doi.org/10.1177/02654075221127863
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What Mechanisms Explain the Links Between Personality and Health?
https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/psychology/hostility#:~:text=Hostile%20individuals%20not%20only%20may,%2C%20and%2For%20general%20distress.
Psychological entitlement: New research unveils link to pandemic non-compliance and conspiracy beliefs
https://www.psypost.org/psychological-entitlement-new-research-unveils-link-to-pandemic-non-compliance-and-conspiracy-beliefs/
Entitlement is a Recipe For Unhappiness
https://neurosciencenews.com/disappointment-entitlement-psychology-5040/amp/