EXPLORING A TROUBLE-MAKER IN A FAMILY |NAVIGATING TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS
420Toxic family dynamics often include at least one trouble-maker.
They are toxic. They are like a parasite. They never go away.
People who enjoy frequent or nonsensical conflict, people who troll online to create dissension, and people who ask inappropriate questions or discuss offensive things.
The only goal for these kind of people is to create discomfort in someone else.
At other times, there may not be a goal at all but just the reality of the person's ignorance and disregarding behavior.
In a toxic family dynamic of the trouble-maker, dissension is created by that parent who has negative comments about your job and the clothes you wear, the relationships you keep, and the decisions you make. And these comments are not in your best interest.
Because of the toxic behavior of these family members, some people respond out of anger, impulsivity, or frustration. But this is giving the trouble-maker EXACTLY what they want.
It isn't until you can CLEARLY spot them that you will be able to overcome them.
In this live chat, I discsus the toxic family dynamic of trouble-making and ways to clearly identify them.
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#trauma #TOXICFAMILY #troublemaker
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
1:02 intro
1:32 what a trouble-maker is (there is interpersonal violence)
9:00 SECONDARY GAINS to trouble-making
20:18 social media bullying and trolls
22:47 SECONDARY GAINS AS DEFENSES or CONFIDENCE
29:33 machiavellian personality
31:24 WHO TROUBLE-MAKERS ARE IN SOME CASES
43:35 HOW TO SPOT THESE PEOPLE
51:54 Interpersonal vs intrapersonal conflict
*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Video (research & further information):
1. Thomaes, S., Brummelman, E., Miller, J. D., & Lilienfeld, S. O. (2017). The dark personality and psychopathology: Toward a brighter future.Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 126(7), 835–842. https://doi.org/10.1037/abn0000305
2. The Co-Development of Relational Aggression and Disruptive Behavior Symptoms from Late Childhood through Adolescence
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5646280/
3. Parenting Characteristics and Callous-Unemotional Traits in Children Aged 0–6 Years: A Systematic Narrative Review
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10578-023-01634-6
4. The Heritability of Callous and Unemotional Traits
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/surviving-the-female-psychopath/202305/the-heritability-of-callous-and-unemotional-traits
5. Carlo Garofalo, Craig S. Neumann, and Patrizia Velotti, “Difficulties in emotion regulation and psychopathic traits in violent offenders,” Journal of Criminal Justice 57, 2018, 116-125.
6.Untangling the concept of coercive control: Theorizing domestic violent crime
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1748895817743541
7. 15 Signs of Mind Games in a Relationship
https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/signs-of-mind-games-in-a-relationship/
8. Self- and Other-Orientation in High Rank: A Cultural Psychological Approach to Social Hierarchy
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/10888683231172252
9. Resolving Conflicts Between People and Over Time in the Transformation Toward Sustainability: A Framework of Interdependent Conflicts
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8081902/
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*Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases.
If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/.
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