We Are Not Ourselves (2014) by Matthew Thomas is a poignant debut novel that follows the life of Eileen Tumulty Leary, a woman who endures hardship, love, and loss. From a difficult childhood with an alcoholic father to her marriage with scientist Ed Leary, Eileen faces the challenges of caring for her family. The narrative takes a tragic turn when Ed is diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's, leading to a powerful portrayal of caregiving, emotional suppression, and the impact of illness on both the patient and their loved ones. Through Eileen's perseverance, the novel explores themes of family, sacrifice, and the inevitable passage of time. The novel received critical acclaim for its exploration of Alzheimer's disease and its emotional depth.