BEWARE! The SELF-RIGHTEOUS Toxic Family Dynamic That Will SHATTER YOU
231Self-righteous personalities and mindsets can be so very difficult to deal with -- especially if the behavior is in a family dynamic that is already toxic. \n\nMost people believe that if a person is self-righteous, they are often inseure, uncertain, and feeling inadequate. \n\nBut that isn't always the case -- especially in toxic families. \n\nSometimes that individual is a psychopath, a narcissist, a manipulator, and sometimes even a pathological liar.\n\nIn this live chat, I discuss the psychology of the self-righteous family dynamic. \n--------------------------------------------------------------
#trauma #tamarahilllpc #TOXICFAMILY
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 Intro
2:55 Bill Crawfords definition of self-righteous
5:59 "holier than thou"
7:07 Luigi Mangeone (moral superiority)
8:15 Self-righteousness vs narcissism
9:20 Bounded Self-righteousness (self-enhancement)
26:00 TYPICAL BEHAIVORS
HOW THIS IMPACTS YOUR OWN PSYCHE
*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Live Chat (research & further information):
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2. Kristina M. Scharp, Elizabeth Dorrance Hall, Family Marginalization, Alienation, and Estrangement: Questioning the Nonvoluntary Status of Family Relationships, Communication Yearbook, Volume 41, Issue 1, March 2017, Pages 28–45, https://doi.org/10.1080/23808985.2017.1285680
3. Flanigan ME, Russo SJ. Recent advances in the study of aggression. Neuropsychopharmacology. 2019 Jan;44(2):241-244. doi: 10.1038/s41386-018-0226-2. Epub 2018 Sep 21. PMID: 30242209; PMCID: PMC6300544.
4. Huesmann LR. An integrative theoretical understanding of aggression: a brief exposition. Curr Opin Psychol. 2018 Feb;19:119-124. doi: 10.1016/j.copsyc.2017.04.015. Epub 2017 Apr 20. PMID: 29279209; PMCID: PMC6441609.
5. Chen N, Jing Y, Pang Y. Relation between parent and child or peer alienation and life satisfaction: The mediation roles of mental resilience and self-concept clarity. Front Psychol. 2022 Nov 17;13:1023133. doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2022.1023133. PMID: 36467219; PMCID: PMC9713928.
6. Klein, N., & Epley, N. (2017). Less Evil Than You: Bounded Self-Righteousness in Character Inferences, Emotional Reactions, and Behavioral Extremes. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 43(8), 1202-1212. https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167217711918
7. Mrug S, Madan A, Windle M. Emotional Desensitization to Violence Contributes to Adolescents' Violent Behavior. J Abnorm Child Psychol. 2016 Jan;44(1):75-86. doi: 10.1007/s10802-015-9986-x. PMID: 25684447; PMCID: PMC4539292.
8. “Holier than thou” or less evil than you? The true nature of self-righteousness. (2017). ScienceDaily. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/07/170711220512.htm
9. Marques TM, Narciso I, Ferreira LC. How Do Family Court Judges Theorize about Parental Alienation? A Qualitative Exploration of the Territory. Int J Environ Res Public Health. 2022 Jun 21;19(13):7555. doi: 10.3390/ijerph19137555. PMID: 35805214; PMCID: PMC9266076.
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