TOXIC FAMILY Of BULLYING That Pushes You To The Edge | Dynamics 101
312I never like the conversation of negative thoughts (i.e., sucide, insecurities, hostile beliefs, etc) that tends to happen in toxic families.
It can often feel like the person is being told they SHOULD NOT have thoughts that aren't "positive."
But in a toxic family dynamic where bullies exist, it is very common to have negative thoughts.\n
We can't ignore the reality that one of the major triggers of negative thoughts (including suicidal thoughts) is depression and a toxic family, especially for older people. \n\nIn this live chat, I discuss the psychology of negative thoughts and family bullies. \n------------------------------------------------------------
#trauma #tamarahilllpc #TOXICFAMILY
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 Intro
2:26 "family bullying" is not well established
4:00 what family bullying is
9:32 COMPLEX PTSD diagnosis
FAMILY EMOTIONAL VIOLENCE
SHAPE-SHIFTER
25:52 Sub-Optimal Parenting
30:50 COMMON FAMILY TACTICS
40:24 what research says is possible
44:39 dynamics of a complex family
59:56 Machavellian parent (example)
1:01:55 WHAT MAY HAPPEN TO YOU
*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Live Chat (research & further information):
1. Fraga S, Soares S, Peres FS, Barros H. Household Dysfunction Is Associated With Bullying Behavior in 10-year-old Children: Do Socioeconomic Circumstances Matter? J Interpers Violence. 2022 Aug;37(15-16):NP13877-NP13901. doi: 10.1177/08862605211006352. Epub 2021 Nov 16. PMID: 34784812; PMCID: PMC9326806.
2. Bailey R, Pico J. Defense Mechanisms. [Updated 2023 May 22]. In: StatPearls [Internet]. Treasure Island (FL): StatPearls Publishing; 2024 Jan-. Available from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK559106/.
3. Smilkstein, G. (n.d.). The Cycle of Family Function: A Conceptual Model for Family Medicine. https://cdn.mdedge.com/files/s3fs-public/jfp-archived-issues/1980-volume_10-11/JFP_1980-08_v11_i2_the-cycle-of-family-function-a-conceptua.pdf
4. Kaiser, D. H., McAdams, C. R., & Foster, V. A. (2012). Disequilibrium and Development. The Family Journal, 20(3), 225–232. https://doi.org/10.1177/1066480712448787
5. Giakoumaki SG, Roussos P, Zouraraki C, et al. Sub-optimal parenting is associated with schizotypic and anxiety personality traits in adulthood. European Psychiatry. 2013;28(4):254-260. doi:10.1016/j.eurpsy.2012.07.002
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*Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases.
If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/.
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