"I Can't BELIEVE My PARENT Is BAD" | The TRUTH of Narcissistic Parents | Psychotherapy Crash Course
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Narcissistic parents are complex.
ALL parents make mistakes. But bad (narcissistic) parents destroy their children.
I LOVE and RESPECT good parents.
They often give themselves to their children and ensures the child has access to not only things to support their basic needs -- but love, compassion, education, and emotional support.
So what happens to the person who has narcissistic or "bad parents?"
A bad (or narcissistic) parent can be defined as a parent who engages in the following behaviors:
-Substance abuse, prostitution, & child neglect
-Willfully putting the child in harms way
-Neglecting the needs of the child to satisfy their own needs
-Engages in sabotaging the child (or adult child) out of jealousy or greed
-Manipulates the child into trusting them only to later deceive them
-Having an emotional or sexual affair with the child's spouse (this does happen!)
-Engaging in dangerous behaviors with the child (or adult child)
In this video, I discuss the "bad parent" and the behaviors that can destroy your adulthood.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
1:55 narcissistic and detached parents of adult children
2:46 unhealthy characteristics
4:05 we are hardwired to need parents
4:52 Harry Harlow Experiment
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5:57 cultural and social view of parents
6:20 no accountability
6:49 lack of empathy (no Theory Of Mind)
7:54 parents can be inconsistent in behaviors
8:20 complex emotional patterns
8:52 Comparison
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If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/.
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