Selfishness of the EMOTIONALLY DETACHED Parent |LIVE CHAT
13256:50 It's really hard for me to say this but the truth must be told that not ALL parents are good.
Emotionally detached parents are often very unavailable to their children and adult children.
Some parents struggle to be attentive, loving, engaging, and emotionally "attentive" because they themselves are struggling with PTSD, childhood trauma, mental illness, etc. These kinds of parents can redeem themselves with therapy, building personal insight, and growing as a person.
But the story drastically changes with a parents -- knowing or unknowingly -- becomes a major interference in the life of their child through:
-emotional, psychological, sexual, and/or physical abuse
-knowingly maintaining unhealthy relationships and behaviors while raising a child
-Refusing help and continuing to do the things that are toxic and unhealthy
-abusing drugs and/or selling drugs
-putting the child in harmful situations to get their needs met (i.e., prostitution, "pimping," selling drugs, robbery/burglary, etc.
In this live chat, I discuss the emotionally absent parent who has "created" complex PTSD in your life.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
11:54 complex PTSD
13:16 symptoms of complex PTSD
15:31 what happened to your brain (amygdala)
17:45 ADHD/ADD and PTSD connection (Pre-frontal cortex)
20:16 what is a passive death wish(chat question)?
27:35 what is happening with rejection sensitive parent
35:32 can a parent with bipolar be traumatizing? (chat question)
39:33: List of behaviors and symptoms of Rejection Sensitive parent
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#trauma #tamarahilllpc #complexptsd
#familytrauma #emotionallydetached
#toxicparents
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Mentioned In The Video:
-Rejection sensitive parents (Reddit community post) https://www.reddit.com/r/family/comments/11qw931/my_mom_has_rejection_sensitive_dysphoria_and_im/
-Rejection sensitivity (definition) https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/24099-rejection-sensitive-dysphoria-rsd#:~:text=Rejection%20sensitive%20dysphoria%20%28RSD%29%20is%20when%20you%20experience,emotions%20and%20behaviors%2C%20making%20them%20much%20more%20intense.
- Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/friendship-20/201907/what-is-rejection-sensitive-dysphoria
Books:
55:40 Selfcare For Adult Children Of Emotionally Detached Parents
56:40 Adult Children Of Emotionally Detached Parents
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