Pax Dei Ep. 154 |The Mirror Effect – How Feedback Shapes Who We Become
How do we become who we are? This epic, wide-ranging episode explores the mirror effect—the powerful role feedback plays in shaping our character, confidence, and self-image. Drawing on global philosophy, modern psychology, and neuroscience, we examine how feedback loops—from honest critique to social media comments—can build us up, tear us down, or teach us balance.
What you’ll discover:
Why feedback loops (from Cooley’s “looking-glass self” to modern social media) are foundational to identity.
The wisdom of Marcus Aurelius, Confucius, Buddhist mindfulness, Ubuntu, Nietzsche, Foucault, bell hooks, and Indigenous teachings on feedback.
The neuroscience and psychology of why criticism stings, how we handle praise, and how mindset shifts everything.
Cautionary tales: when too much feedback fragments identity, and how to filter out distortion and noise.
Real-world case studies from relationships, workplaces, and gaming—plus actionable tools to seek, give, and receive feedback that fosters true growth.
Whether you’re seeking self-mastery, navigating workplace dynamics, or building community, this episode gives you the philosophical, scientific, and practical roadmap for finding balance in the mirror.
Sources:
Includes references from primary research, peer-reviewed psychology, original philosophical texts, and modern leadership thinkers (see show notes).
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