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The Happy Factor
What Remains when Suffering Ends
"Go within, into a state which you may compare to a state of waking sleep, in which you are aware of yourself, but not of the world. In that state you will know, without the least trace of doubt, that at the root of your being you are free and happy." - Nisargadatta Maharaj from "I Am That"
Let me cut to the chase. Happiness is your nature. it is the disposition of the infinite. It is the personality of God. Suffering is what we feel when we forget our true nature.


Suffering is a clear indicator that you have missed the mark. It is the canary in the coal mine. It is the hangover on the morning after. it is the idiot light on your dashboard that says, "You're two quarts low, Jack!"


But, just like the cloud that obscures the sun but doesn't affect it, even so suffering clouds happiness, but never touches it and certainly cannot eliminate it.


As Buddha pointed out 2500 years ago, suffering has a cause. Happiness, on the other hand, does not. It is uncaused. It is the nature of being itself. The recognition of that is what gave rise to that iconic contented face that we all know as the Buddha.


So, it is futile to engage ourselves in the attempt to acquire happiness from any of the "things" that we believe possess this elusive quality. Every attempt to do so will only reinforce the already deeply entrenched idea that happiness is out there... somewhere.


As every saint and sage for all time has said over and over and over again. "It ain't out there." But, that begs the questions. "If it is my nature, why don't I feel it?" And, "If it ain't out there, where is it?" Very good questions, indeed. So let's look at what feelings in general, and the feeling that we call happiness in specific, actually are.


Feelings or emotions are reactive. They are always responding to circumstances and events. They are never self-generated. Some of those reactions are pleasant, some not so much. We could say that happiness is the emotion that happens in response to an event happening or a circumstance arising, that I like. Conversely, misery is the reaction to what I do not like. If then, the pursuit of happiness is confined to what is happening "out there" we will be forever engaged in trying to create circumstances to our liking. I think it is obvious that that is a futile endeavor.


But notice, the feeling isn't out there. The feeling is very much right here. It is the way I am reacting that determines happiness and misery and not the actual circumstance itself. I mean, if the circumstance were the cause then everyone who found themselves in that circumstance would experience exactly the same happiness or misery. But we don't. We all react totally differently.


Feeling happy shouldn't be like picking a lock
So the happiness or misery is not out there but completely in here. It is in how we have learned to react, not in what happens. This gives rise a very different approach to living. We give up trying to control circumstances, which we learn very quickly is impossible. Instead, we start turning inward in an attempt to discover why we react the way we do. I can't control out there, but in here? That is a very different thing.


Now, rather than going into the psychology and conditioned responses and energetic assumptions, let me once again cut to the chase and give you a shortcut. Let's bypass that whole discussion and analysis and see if we can't detect something that is missed by all but a few.


Since the psychology and conditioned responses and belief systems and ego formation all happened after you were already here, we can rightly ask, "What was I like, before all of that other stuff happened?" Or, to put it another way, "What is my essential nature that got covered up by the conditioning?" To take these questions seriously means, not only that we can stop looking to external circumstances for happiness but we can also go beyond examining all the history and life events that determined the conditioned responses by which I have been reacting.

Who Were You Before the Conditioning?


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