Why Am I NOT Good Enough to DATE Women!
8This post is just pathetic.
"What does it take to be good enough to date as a man?" You're good enough if you ask a girl out and she says yes. Have you ever done that?
"Whenever I or really any guy talks about having struggles in dating, he basically gets told to shut up and improve himself." Improving yourself is not going to do you any good. You're relying on girls coming to ask you out when it should've been you asking the girls out.
The guy then advertised himself. He's in shape, has lots of money, owns a house, very social with lots of friends and genders, have some social hobbies such as... pickleball? He's also into climbing and... trivia? I mean if you like those hobbies, good for you, but how about instead of improving yourself, try targeting one girl, get her attention, and ask her out on a date. If it doesn't work, move on to other girls.
"And yet I can't get a date to save my life." Maybe it's because you're too focused on improving yourself that you forgot the most important part of getting a date, which is to actually talk to a girl and ask her out.
"I'm still typically told that you've got to improve." Maybe it's just me, but I have a feeling that those people tell you all that so that you're busy improving yourself while they go out and hunt the girls that you're supposed to be hunting. I'm just saying internet. Sometimes when people give you advice, it sounds like good advice, but it's actually serving them more than it serves you.