WHY SIBLINGS SPOT RED FLAGS Before Everyone Else |Toxic Family Dynamics
340Toxic family dynamics almost always are to blame for the poorly developed relationship of siblings.
Siblings in these dynamics have a really hard time communicating, showing love and patience with each other, and being honest within the sibling and family dynamic.
A toxic family dynamic may actually encourage some toxic and unhealthy sibling behaviors such as lying, deceiving others, being disonest, physical aggression, disregard for the other sibling's rights, and backbiting.
In this video, I discuss the Psychology of Toxic Sibling Relationships in a complex dynamic.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
8:24 COMMON CHALLENGES WITH THESE SIBLINGS
9:11 splitting (black/white perspective)
10:03 self-perception vs reality
11:00 competition/you vs. me
12:07 role reversal
13:20 conflictual communication
15:35 why coalitions/alliances exist
16:12 IMPACT OF THESE SIBLINGS ON YOU
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Mentioned In The Video:
1. Kullberg, M.-L. J., van Schie, C. C., van Sprang, E. D., Hartman, C. A., van Hemert, A. M., Penninx, B. W. J. H., & Elzinga, B. M. (2021). Why some siblings thrive whereas others struggle: A within-family study on recollections of childhood parental bonding and current adult depressive and anxiety symptoms. Journal of Affective Disorders, 281, 413–421. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jad.2020.12.045
2. Feinberg ME, Solmeyer AR, McHale SM. The third rail of family systems: sibling relationships, mental and behavioral health, and preventive intervention in childhood and adolescence. Clin Child Fam Psychol Rev. 2012 Mar;15(1):43-57. doi: 10.1007/s10567-011-0104-5. PMID: 22105663; PMCID: PMC3288255.
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4. Loechner J, Sfärlea A, Starman K, Oort F, Thomsen LA, Schulte-Körne G, Platt B. Risk of Depression in the Offspring of Parents with Depression: The Role of Emotion Regulation, Cognitive Style, Parenting and Life Events. Child Psychiatry Hum Dev. 2020 Apr;51(2):294-309. doi: 10.1007/s10578-019-00930-4. PMID: 31691071; PMCID: PMC7067707.
5. Ortigue, S., & Bianchi-Demicheli, F. (2011). Intention, false beliefs, and delusional jealousy: Insights into the right hemisphere from neurological patients and neuroimaging studies. Medical Science Monitor, 17(1), RA1–RA11. https://doi.org/10.12659/msm.881314
6 Murphy, T. F. (2024, October 20). The Psychology of Siblings: Birth Order Theory. Psychology Fanatic. https://psychologyfanatic.com/birth-order/
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