A CRUSHING TOXICITY | UNMASKING LIES IN AN OUT-OF-TOUCH TOXIC FAMILY
209Narcissists have an interesting way that they relate to the world.
Their toxic family dynamics fuel their delusions.
Their ideas, behaviors, feelings, mannerisms, and attitudes all create a "story" that describes their imagined or desired world.
Everyone in their world relies on them, looks up to them, needs them, and can't live without them.
The world is a better place because of how they think and feel about things.
In a toxic family dynamic, these delusional narcissists control, manipulate, lie, cheat, steal, and triangulate with the intent of gaining a status they don't deserve.
A toxic family dynamic is the exact world they need and desire because they can easily "set up" scenes, scenarios, and histories that tells a completely different story than the truth -- and a story that can be believed.
In this live chat, I discuss the psychology of delusional narcissists.
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#trauma #tamarahilllpc #toxicfamily
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 Intro
4:44 narcissists are on a spectrum of behaviors
6:45 how they talk can tell you a lot
9:05 narcissists live in a fantasy prone world
9:45 Alice-In-Wonderland
35:38 trying too hard personality
37:06 narcissistic injury
43:01 COMMON BEHAVIORS
48:58 WHAT THE RESEARCH SAYS
1:10:14 THE TRUTH OF WHO THEY ARE IN YOUR LIFE
*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Live Chat (research & further information):
1. Kerber A, Roth M, Herzberg PY. Personality types revisited-a literature-informed and data-driven approach to an integration of prototypical and dimensional constructs of personality description. PLoS One. 2021 Jan 7;16(1):e0244849. doi: 10.1371/journal.pone.0244849. PMID: 33411758; PMCID: PMC7790254.
2. O'Reilly CA, Hall N. Grandiose narcissists and decision making: Impulsive, overconfident, and skeptical of experts-but seldom in doubt. Pers Individ Dif. 2021 Jan 1;168:110280. doi: 10.1016/j.paid.2020.110280. Epub 2020 Aug 14. PMID: 32834287; PMCID: PMC7427600.
3. Abeyta A. A., Routledge C., Sedikides C. (2017). Material meaning: Narcissists gain existential benefits from extrinsic goals. Social Psychological & Personality Science, 8, 219–228. doi: 10.1177/1948550616667618
4. Grapsas S, Brummelman E, Back MD, Denissen JJA. The "Why" and "How" of Narcissism: A Process Model of Narcissistic Status Pursuit. Perspect Psychol Sci. 2020 Jan;15(1):150-172. doi: 10.1177/1745691619873350. Epub 2019 Dec 5. PMID: 31805811; PMCID: PMC6970445.
5. Miller WR, Sanchez VC. Motivating young adults for treatment and lifestyle change. In: Nathan GSHPE, editor. Alcohol use and misuse by young adults. Notre Dame, IN: University of Notre Dame Press; 1994. pp. 55–81.
6. Rosen C, Harrow M, Humpston C, Tong L, Jobe TH, Harrow H. 'An experience of meaning': A 20-year prospective analysis of delusional realities in schizophrenia and affective psychoses. Front Psychiatry. 2022 Aug 4;13:940124. doi: 10.3389/fpsyt.2022.940124. PMID: 35990079; PMCID: PMC9388349.
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