HOW TO UNDERSTAND CALLOUS RELATIONSHIPS THAT TRAUMATIZED YOU |LIVE CHAT
244Feeling traumatized by the experience of a cold-callous relationship is normal.
Althought the experience of being traumatized by a callous person isn't a welcomed situation, there are a lot of people who become the victims of cold-hearted people every single day.
Have you ever questioned whether the person you just spoke to on the bus to work could be a sociopath?
Have you ever questioned if your father -- who did a pretty okay job helping to raise you -- is a psychopath?
Have you ever looked at a public figure (teacher, coach, doctor, lawyer, etc) and ask yourself if he or she could ever harm you without a clear conscience?
I'm sure your answers to these questions would be "no."
In this live chat, I discuss both cognitive vs affective empathy that is often unseen in relatinoships with what appears to be a cold-hearted and callous person.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
4:50 why cold people the way they are
6:05 what other words describe "cold people"
7:05 indifferent, cruel, absence of affective empathy
8:19 cognitive empathy is...
9:05 what exactly IS cognitive empathy?
12:08 rejection of cultivating intimacy
12:54 theory of mind (the neurology of empathy)
17:50 compassionate empathy
43:07 WHAT IS WRONG WITH COLD-HEARTED PEOPLE
Hostile attribution bias
Self-deception
Interdependent self-concept
Delusional pattern of grandiosity
***Q&A in-between the discussion
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#trauma #TRAUMATIZED
#tamarahilllpc #empathy
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Mentioned In The Video:
1. Evil relationships previous live chat https://youtube.com/live/BkDkg3uoVj0
2. 15 most "famous" psychopaths https://www.rd.com/list/most-famous-psychopaths-in-history/
3. Vulnerable narcissists https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2022/03/29/a-new-study-explores-the-fragile-reality-of-a-vulnerable-narcissist/
4. the previous live chat box conversations https://youtube.com/live/LVvnxxDgNs0 (no video)
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