🔴My ex dumped me by sending a voice note. It was painful and confusing.✔ P B P
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Of course, it was confusing and painful. I couldn't believe it was real. I cried for two weeks straight after the breakup.
Finding out I was single again via a voice note was hard. I understand that no one really owes anyone anything for just two months of dating, but I still feel like I deserved a face-to-face conversation. It felt like my feelings didn't matter in this scenario.
But I'm proud of myself because I was vulnerable for the first time in a relationship, especially during those breakup voice note exchanges. Before that, I was always playing the chill, cool girl who just didn't care because I wanted to hold the power. I am also proud that I didn't try to get him to change his mind once he said that he wanted to break up. A previous version of me would have done that.
Plus, I definitely won't be sending constant voice notes in the future when I have just started dating someone. I realized it builds a false sense of intimacy. We got into a pattern of constant voice notes because I was anxious that he would be dating other people, so I wanted to know what he was doing throughout the day. I can see that now — now that I've had some space from this experience.