"Why Do My Parents BLAME Me For Their Problems?" Parent Mental Health | Psychotherapy Crash Course
87#trauma #intergenerationaltrauma #parenting
Being a parent is a difficult thing I think we all can agree on. However, when parents take a "low road" and decides to burden the innocent child (child, teen, or adult child) with things that aren't fair to them parenting becomes abusive and traumatic. Parents who are suffering from a mental illness, displays sociopathic behaviors, or are immature and unprepared, need a lot of help from the "village" to raise healthy children. Their uncoofed behaviors often results in the child growing into a fearful, insecurely attached, and uncertain adult.
In this video, I highlight some of the things unhealthy parents blame their children for at all stages of development.
NOTE: *audio and visual difficulties may be present depending on what device you are using. Thank you for your patience as I work on these issues.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
Intro: 0:00
What is this? 2:56
Neuroticism 2:42
Sexual abuse/incest 8:05
Divorce 9:27
Poor mental health 10:48
Low income 11:42
Failed opportunities 12:24
Financial instability 13:42
No or low education 14:32
Reputation 15:01
Suicidal ideation/Suicide attempts 16:00
Self-harm 17:54
Impulsivity, fatigue, etc 18:53
Parental authority 19:45
Grief 20:20
ACE Questionnaire 21:48
Resiliency Questionnaire 21:56
*PARENTAL MENTAL HEALTH 1:45 https://youtu.be/itBiQyht5WI
*Neuroticism in parents
https://youtu.be/I31eWMCdcY0
*Reference https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26445808/
*https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1126643/
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