"burden of being attractive" "catcalling" "feminisim" 10 Hours of Walking in NYC as a Woman reaction
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I think I may have rambled and didnt get all my points accross maybe accurately... but basically im just trying to say that I think its awful when people complain about the burden of being attractive. And how someone complimenting them might ruin their day. Or that no man can be sexually harassed. And as someone who has been countless times I think its pretty insulting. So that specifically that sorta thought is what I was kinda trying to touch on. And how I think all the negative sorta vibes in the world, and placing a negative thought automatically on someone or a interaction you havnt even had yet is a bad thing. I dont think someone coming up to you or complimenting you comes from a negative place. Obviously who can say what happens after that initial interaction. But at this point nothing bad has happened. And to throw negative vibes on someone and automatically assume something bad might happen just spreads hate. As someone who has experienced both sides of being objectified I can tell you I much rather prefer being objectified in a "positive" way than in a completely negative one as when I was younger at points. Even though of course bad things still happen to me. Ive had my own doctor grab my dick, girls messaging me saying they wont be my friend unless I have sex with them so they go and make stuff up about me. People automatically assuming im a douche bag or something. So there are negatives but at the same time a lot of people are automatically more nice to me I think and give me good vibes. And I think its wrong when there are so many other bad things happening in this world. Or just others who could only wish that someone would be nice to them and to take that for granted and not only that but turn it into hate is awful.
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