"Etched in Sand" is a memoir by Regina Calcaterra, published in 2013. The book tells the story of Calcaterra's turbulent childhood, growing up in poverty and neglect in Long Island, New York.
Calcaterra and her four siblings were raised by their mentally ill mother, who was frequently absent and often abusive. The children were forced to fend for themselves, scrounging for food and clothing and enduring physical and emotional abuse from their mother and her string of boyfriends.
Despite the many obstacles she faced, Calcaterra was a determined and resourceful child, determined to survive and succeed against all odds. She excelled in school, earning top grades and eventually winning a scholarship to law school.
Through her experiences, Calcaterra explores themes of resilience, perseverance, and the power of education to transform lives. She also sheds light on the failures of the child welfare system and the ways in which poverty and neglect can perpetuate cycles of abuse and trauma.
"Etched in Sand" has been praised for its honesty, its powerful storytelling, and its unflinching portrayal of the challenges faced by children growing up in poverty. It is a moving and inspiring memoir that offers a glimpse into a world that is often overlooked and ignored, and highlights the importance of empathy, compassion, and education in breaking cycles of poverty and abuse.