Sex in Japan: Japanese Men in Bed/Virginity
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"I don't really care about coming"
The Japanese girl in question wasn't just being 'polite' with me because I wasn't sleeping with her. (I came across her in one of those meetups.)
She had a North American boyfriend so we started talking about
differences between sex in Japan and in North America. I said that in some cultures, women are more likely to tell guys to continue because they haven't come yet. And she said that she didn't really care about coming because she was happy having sex with a guy she likes.
After watching this video on my Facebook page--I upload my videos on Facebook first--someone messaged me saying that she also tells guys that she doesn't need to come, but only because it's hard for her to come during sex (including oral sex) even though she actually wants to come.
So yes, I do get that just because someone says it's OK not to come,
it doesn't necessarily mean that they really don't want to come. But at the same time, if the girl explicitly tells me she doesn't really have to come, maybe it would be a good idea not to focus on her orgasm like it's a mission.
At the end of the day, communication is key. Maybe she is just being polite and doesn't want to make guys feel bad about it. Or maybe it's hard for her to come during sex and she doesn't know how to go about it. Or maybe she genuinely doesn't care. Whatever the reason is, I'm always willing to listen and see what we can do together to make things better.