THE TOXIC GRIP OF SIBLING AND PARENT JEALOUSY: BEWARE OF THIS TRAP!
2,140Jealousy is a natural emotion and may be triggered by a variety of insecurities.\n\nBut when jealousy becomes morbid or pathological, nothing about that is normal. \n\nMorbid or pathological jealousy can wreck hovoc on your life for many years.
It can be a very toxic bind in your life.\n\nPathological jealousy is the technical term in psychology to refer to an individual who is experiencing a jealousy that can result in inappropriate behaviors that could negatively impact your life. \n\nIn this live chat, I discuss the psychology of jealous parent-sibling coalitions.\n-----------------------------------------------------
#trauma #tamarahilllpc #TOXICFAMILY
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 intro
1:40 siblings really don't get along? Parent's too?
3:32 the drama triangle
5:47 Interpersonal Jealousy System (with visual), episodic, & dispositional jealousy
15:42 Affective, cognitive, and personality state of the jealous parent
24:06 PARENT JEALOUSY CAN BE SEEN IN THESE WAYS
34:45 acceptance of having jealous siblings and parents
38:00 the cultural influence of jealousy (African culture)
39:55 can siblings "outgrow" jealousy?
43:04 should you call out a narc sibling or parent who is jealous?
50:09 WHAT JEALOUS SIBLINGS LOOK LIKE
57:14 WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU
*discussion in-between content
--------------------------------------------------------------------
Mentioned In The Video (research & further information):
1. Differential parenting and sibling jealousy: Developmental correlates of young adults' romantic relationships
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2396512/
2. The relationship between parental role expectations and sibling jealousy: the mediating effect of first-born children’s role cognition
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9992901/
3. Parenting Characteristics and Callous-Unemotional Traits in Children Aged 0–6 Years: A Systematic Narrative Review
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10578-023-01634-6
4. Heritable and non-heritable pathways to early callous-unemotional behaviors
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5008992/
5. Heritable and Nonheritable Pathways to Early
Callous-Unemotional Behaviors
https://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/pdf/10.1176/appi.ajp.2016.15111381
6. The Heritability of Callous and Unemotional Traits
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/surviving-the-female-psychopath/202305/the-heritability-of-callous-and-unemotional-traits
7. Mommy Dearest movie https://youtu.be/xfks96rXxq8?si=EFDpDfe9nqt1rWR4
8. Lindsey Gibson Self-care book
Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Honor Your Emotions, Nurture Your Self, and Live with Confidence https://a.co/d/6WYf9kZ
9. Aspects of morbid jealousy
https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/advances-in-psychiatric-treatment/article/aspects-of-morbid-jealousy/06CBB7BF78CC43C785AE6F7C0F0046C9
10. The relationship between parental role expectations and sibling jealousy: the mediating effect of first-born children’s role cognition
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9992901/
*MY VIDEOS ON SIBLING JEALOUSY:
1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QfGwHNceLMg
2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uNY1Ngktb6c
------------------------------------------------------------------
*Good definition of sibling jealousy:
"Jealousy is defined here as an organized complex of emotions, cognitions, and behaviors that result from a threat to or loss of a beloved relationship to a rival (Volling, McElwain, & Miller, 2002)."
-----------------------------------------------------------------
DISCLAIMER:
*Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases.
If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/.
----------------------------------------------------------------
----Contact me-------(BUSINESS INQUIRIES ONLY)
I'm Támara, a licensed and internationally/Board certified trauma mental health therapist, with over 15 years experience. I specialize in helping children, teens, and families with mental illness. I also treat psychological/emotional trauma in children, teens, and adults.
If you'd like to contact me or inquire about my international consultations, you may email me at contact@anchoredinknowledge.com. *Please note: all consultations are charged a fixed rate fee based on the case content.
Mail me stuff!
PO BOX 15747
Robinson Township, PA 15244
*FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
Twitter - http://www.twitter.com/therapisttee
Website - http://www.anchoredinknowledge.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thilltherapist/?hl=en
______________________________________
Copyright © All rights reserved.
Permission must be given before videos are used.