TOXIC FAMILY CONTROL: 12 WAYS OCPD TAKES CONTROL AND DOMINATES LIVES
164Controlling people (or toxic family controllers) are difficult to manage. \nMost people believe that controllers are evil, dominating people who want to harm others. \n\nBut the reality is that controlling people could be the product of a very toxic family dynamic where they have received years upon years of reinforcement.
\nDifficulty accepting that not everything will always go their way is often at the core of controlling people.
But research also suggests that controllers may be the product of a personality disorder that developed through years of reinforcement, lack of boundaries, and privilage.\n\nA combination of environmental and biological factors collide to create the individual with obsessive-compulsive personality disorder. \n\nIn this live chat, I discuss controlling people with obsessive-compulsive personality disorder.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 intro
2:25 OCD vs Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD)
5:22 Obsessive-compulsive disorder (Obsession vs Compulsion)
8:32 narcissism can be connected to obsessive-compulsive personality disorder
16:40 WHAT DOES THIS LOOK LIKE IN DAILY LIFE
34:04 desired control over EVERY little thing
38:33 WHAT CONTROLLERS ARE LIKE
44:12 HOW TO MANAGE THESE PEOPLE
*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Video:
1. The psychology of offense https://www.sagu.edu/thoughthub/the-psychology-of-offense/
2. Born to Choose: The Origins and Value of the Need for Control
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2944661/
3. It’s All About Control
https://www.psychologicalscience.org/news/releases/its-all-about-control.html
4. Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK597372/
5. Interpersonal Functioning in Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4281499/
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