UNDERSTAND The BLAME CYCLE In TOXIC FAMILY AND RELATIONSHIPS
196Blaming is the process of making someone else the problem when the real problem is the person themselves.
Blame is sometimes a defense mechanism that is taught while growing up in a dysfunctional and toxic family dynamic.
It is the result of entitlement and a lack of accountability.
In this live chat, I discuss the psychology of people who blame others and how a toxic family dynamic can contribue.
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#trauma #tamarahilllpc #TOXICFAMILY
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 Intro
44:00 COMMON ISSUES WITH BLAMERS
49:00 failed relationships
49:35 FALSE CONSENSUS EFFECT
51:07 Thematic Apperception Tests
53:15 IMPACT OF BLAMERS ON YOU
*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Live Chat (research & further information):
1. Lange J, Redford L, Crusius J. A Status-Seeking Account of Psychological Entitlement. Pers Soc Psychol Bull. 2019 Jul;45(7):1113-1128. doi: 10.1177/0146167218808501. Epub 2018 Nov 28. PMID: 30486751; PMCID: PMC6552293.
2. Carver, C. S., & Scheier, M. F. (2001). On the Self-Regulation of Behavior. Cambridge University Press.
3. G. Andrews et al.
The defense style questionnaire. Journal of Nervous and Mental Disease(1993)
4. Steindl C, Jonas E, Sittenthaler S, Traut-Mattausch E, Greenberg J. Understanding Psychological Reactance: New Developments and Findings. Z Psychol. 2015;223(4):205-214. doi: 10.1027/2151-2604/a000222. PMID: 27453805; PMCID: PMC4675534.
5. team, N. editorial. (2024, September 15). Blaming Others Psychology: The Science Behind Deflecting Responsibility. NeuroLaunch.com. https://neurolaunch.com/blaming-others-psychology/
6. Murphy, T. F. (2024, November 2). Why We Think Everyone Agrees with Us: The False Consensus Effect. Psychology Fanatic. https://psychologyfanatic.com/false-consensus-effect/
7. Murphy, T. F. (2024, September 5). Exploring the Spiral of Silence: How Public Opinion Influences Expression. Psychology Fanatic. https://psychologyfanatic.com/spiral-of-silence/
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*Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases.
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