HIDDEN LINK Between ENTITLEMENT, FAMILY TRAUMA, And A TOXIC FAMILY
231No one likes to believe they are "entitled" or "greedy."
The connotations of the words are so negative that most people naturally believe they aren't "greedy" or "entitled."
But the reality is that some people become naturally greedy and entitled due to a toxic family dynamic, being "spoiled" or pampered too much, having immediate access to what they want, etc.
Toxic family dynamics can foster the development of such traits more than we think it can.
In this live chat, I discuss the psychology of entitled people.
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#trauma #tamarahilllpc #TOXICFAMILY
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 Intro
3:25 SKIP TECHNICAL DIFFICULTIES HERE
8:16 developmental influence
10:39 ERRONEOUS thinking about self ("deservingness")
12:20 exaggerated feelings
23:20 psychological entitlement vs narcissism
32:32 children who are entitled/greedy/manipulative (journey of a 10 yr old)
47:00 COMMON CHALLENGES EITH ENTITLED PEOPLE
55:52 spectrum of entitlement
57:20 COGNITIVE DISTORTIONS
1:09:42 entitled elderly woman
1:20:19 HOW THIS IMPACTS YOUR LIFE
*discussion in-between content
*Prime example of entitlement • Officers Can't Keep a Straight Face W... .
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Mentioned In The Live Chat (research & further information):
1. Lange J, Redford L, Crusius J. A Status-Seeking Account of Psychological Entitlement. Pers Soc Psychol Bull. 2019 Jul;45(7):1113-1128. doi: 10.1177/0146167218808501. Epub 2018 Nov 28. PMID: 30486751; PMCID: PMC6552293.
2. Nocentini, A., Fiorentini, G., Di Paola, L., & Menesini, E. (2018). Parents, family characteristics and bullying behavior: A systematic review. Aggression and Violent Behavior, 45. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.avb.2018.07.010
3. Zitek, E. M., & Jordan, A. H. (2017). Psychological Entitlement Predicts Failure to Follow Instructions. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 10(2), 172-180. https://doi.org/10.1177/1948550617729885 (Original work published 2019)
4. Whiteman SD, McHale SM, Soli A. Theoretical Perspectives on Sibling Relationships. J Fam Theory Rev. 2011 Jun 1;3(2):124-139. doi: 10.1111/j.1756-2589.2011.00087.x. PMID: 21731581; PMCID: PMC3127252.
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