"Why Is My Narcissistic Parent Detached?" | Attachment Theory | Psychotherapy Crash Course
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A narcissistic parent is difficult to accept and live with because they don't fit the description of the "typical parent."
They are emotionally detached and nonchalant about almost everything.
They are often distant emotionally, critical, condescending, and hurtful.
A child growing up under such a parent will likely have problems into adulthood.
These kind of parents also fail to develop a healthy attachment to their child which can lead to attachment issues.
In this video, I will discuss the challenges associated with narcissistic parents who fail to develop proper attachments to their child. I will also highlight how this affects YOU.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
1:37 what attachment can tell us about adult trauma
2:44 attachment styles among your parent
2:57 secure attachment
3:47 anxious/avoidant attachment
***WHAT THESE PARENTS LOOK LIKE
4:55 ANXIOUS/FEARFUL PARENT
-they take and don't give back
-insecure and anxious
-you can't meet their expectations 100%
-desire for validation to no avail
8:23 AVOIDANT PARENT
-overly independent
-the best of everything
-concerned over reputation
-distant emotionally and psychologically
-"selfish" parent
-APD
-difficulty expressing emotions
-no reciprocal interaction with your parent
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