"What Does FAMILY Control Look Like?"|| COERCIVE NARCISSIST CONTROL || Psychotherapy Crash Course
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Dysfunctional, narcissistic, or self-centered family members can behave in ways that cause you to question if they are aware of the things they do that harm other people.
It's important to keep in mind that most narcissists don't know they are narcissistic and often believe that their behaviors are justified or "normal."
As a result, family members may struggle to see the narcissists behaviors as harmful -- and allow certain patterns of behavior to occur or repeat over generations which can give "birth" to evil "weapons" -- such as passive aggressive behavior, pathological lying, sneaky and vindictive behavior, and something known as COERCIVE CONTROL.
In this video, I discuss coercive control and the tactics you may have been the victim of.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
1:30 passive-aggressive behavior
2:30 coercive control & manipulation
3:53 example of coercive control
6:25 lack of role reciprocity
7:00 signs/features of coercive control
7:16 am I walking on eggshells? (a form of family violence)
8:20 they know how to push you & take advantage of your responses
9:30 codependency, traumatic bonding, & dependent personality disorder
10:05 complex and subtle series of behaviors make up the process of coercive control
10:30 behaviors can appear to be socially acceptable
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***References & Resources on coercive control:
1. https://myfamilypsychologist.com/what-is-coercive-control-and-gaslighting/
2.https://www.dva.gov.au/newsroom/latest-news-veterans/recognising-signs-coercive-control
3.https://www.lawnow.org/the-divorce-act-and-invisible-abuse-coercive-control-in-family-law/#:~:text=Coercive%20control%20is%20an%20ongoing%20pattern%20of%20the,as%20the%20golden%20thread%20running%20through%20all%20abuse.
4.https://www.healthline.com/health/coercive-control
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