"Why Is My Parent So Complicated?" Understanding Personality Disorders |Psychotherapy Crash Course

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"Why is my parent so complicated?" is a question I get asked all of the time. That's not an easy question to answer. I find myself often looking to personality disorders to explain complicated parent behaviors.

Personality disorders are often responsible for the chronic dysfunctional behaviors of a parent (or family) that you may have struggled with for a long time.

In this video, I discuss what a complicated parent may do by zoning in on borderline personality traits and emotional reactivity.

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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
2:25 Stormy relationships
3:40 Parents that are overly sensitive
-catastrophizing
4:04 WHAT THESE PARENTS DO:
4:16 Splitting
-5:21 example of sensitivity
7:15 Twisting things & misinterpretation of intent
9:32 Inflated sense of self-importance
10:39 Playing the victim
10:52 Catastrophizing
11:26 Generalizing
12:00 "The world is against me mentality"

Example of changing mood in dysphoria 1:19
https://youtu.be/dmR0-31EMYE

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