The PROBLEM PARENT In A Toxic Family Dynamic: Grown Child REVIEW
203Parent-Adult child dynamics can be complicated.
Parents are supposed to be the people we run to when life doesn't treat us right. \n\nThey are a safehaven. \n\nBut in a toxic family dynamic with trauma, untreated mental illness, and complex personality disorders, it is hard sometimes to have this kind of parent. \n\nAs a result, you may find yourself feeling all alone, abused, neglected, and mistreated in your adult life. \n\nIn this live chat, I discuss the psychology of the abusive parent in denial.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 Intro
3:44 PSYCHOLOGICAL ENTITLEMENT
8:30 MORAL DISENGAGEMENT (detachment from obligation)
13:34 COMPASSIONATE EMPATHY
36:00 COMMON BEHAVIORS OF ABUSIVE PARENTS
54:09 neurological changes with previous abuse
59:23 power differential
1:04:40 HOW ABUSIVE PEOPLE NEGATIVELY IMPACT YOU
*Adult children going no-contact: https://www.npr.org/2024/12/17/1219887502/blocking-your-mom-why-adult-children-are-going-no-contact
*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Live Chat (research & further information):
1. Springer KW, Sheridan J, Kuo D, Carnes M. The long-term health outcomes of childhood abuse. An overview and a call to action. J Gen Intern Med. 2003 Oct;18(10):864-70. doi: 10.1046/j.1525-1497.2003.20918.x. PMID: 14521650; PMCID: PMC1494926.
2. Cikanavicius, D. (2018, October 14). Dangerous Dark Traits Among Narcissists, Abusers, and Toxic People. Psych Central. https://psychcentral.com/blog/psychology-self/2018/10/dark-narcissist-traits#1
3. Smilkstein, G. (n.d.). The Cycle of Family Function: A Conceptual Model for Family Medicine. https://cdn.mdedge.com/files/s3fs-public/jfp-archived-issues/1980-volume_10-11/JFP_1980-08_v11_i2_the-cycle-of-family-function-a-conceptua.pdf
4. Kaiser, D. H., McAdams, C. R., & Foster, V. A. (2012). Disequilibrium and Development. The Family Journal, 20(3), 225–232. https://doi.org/10.1177/1066480712448787
5. Bloxsom, C. A. J., Firth, J., Kibowski, F., Egan, V., Sumich, A. L., & Heym, N. (2021). Dark shadow of the self: How the dark triad and empathy impact parental and intimate adult attachment relationships in women. Forensic Science International: Mind and Law, 2, 100045. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.fsiml.2021.100045
6. Greene CA, Haisley L, Wallace C, Ford JD. Intergenerational effects of childhood maltreatment: A systematic review of the parenting practices of adult survivors of childhood abuse, neglect, and violence. Clin Psychol Rev. 2020 Aug;80:101891. doi: 10.1016/j.cpr.2020.101891. Epub 2020 Jul 23. PMID: 32745835; PMCID: PMC7476782.
7. Franke HA. Toxic Stress: Effects, Prevention and Treatment. Children (Basel). 2014 Nov 3;1(3):390-402. doi: 10.3390/children1030390. PMID: 27417486; PMCID: PMC4928741.
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*Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases.
If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/.
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