UNLEARNING Toxic Love: A Family Of Hidden TRUTH & Relationship Problems
163The idea of love is a beautiful concept -- especially when it involves a loving marriage, a caring family, or a parent-child relationship.
But how are you supposed to understand the full extent of love in a toxic family dynamic or relationship that hurts you?
Most people look to social media, movies, or other relationships to help them maintain a positive view of love.
Within a toxic family dynamic or relationship, the concept of love may be skewed or simply nonexistent.
In this live chat, I discuss the psychology of toxic love in relationships and family.
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#trauma #tamarahilllpc #TOXICFAMILY
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 Intro
4:03 WHAT WE THINK LOVE IS ("IDEAL LOVE")
10:10 absence of a POWER DIFFERENTIAL
13:13 cognitive and affective empathy
14:55 coercive control
31:53 COMMON EXAMPLES OF TRUE LOVE
58:09 EMOTIONAL IMPACT ON YOU
*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Live Chat (research & further information):
1. Yela C. (2003). Love From Social Psychology. Madrid: Pirámide.
2. Karakurt G, Silver KE. Emotional abuse in intimate relationships: the role of gender and age. Violence Vict. 2013;28(5):804-21. doi: 10.1891/0886-6708.vv-d-12-00041. PMID: 24364124; PMCID: PMC3876290.
3. Effiong, J. E., Ibeagha, P. N., & Iorfa, S. K. (2022). Traumatic bonding in victims of intimate partner violence is intensified via empathy. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 39(12), 3619-3637. https://doi.org/10.1177/02654075221106237
4. Kaiser, D. H., McAdams, C. R., & Foster, V. A. (2012). Disequilibrium and Development. The Family Journal, 20(3), 225–232. https://doi.org/10.1177/1066480712448787
5. Berry S. Addicted to love. Sydney Morning Herald. 2013 Apr 2; Accessed at: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/addicted-to-love-20130401-2h2bz.html.
6.Cubells-Serra J, Sánchez-Sicilia A, Astudillo-Mendoza P, Escandón-Nagel N, Baeza-Rivera MJ. Assumption of the Myths of Romantic Love: Its Relationship With Sex, Type of Sex-Affective Relationship, and Sexual Orientation. Front Sociol. 2021 May 20;6:621646. doi: 10.3389/fsoc.2021.621646. PMID: 34095286; PMCID: PMC8175080.
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