CRACKING THE CODE: 15 Eye-opening Truths About Toxic Family Disapproval
273Being disliked within your toxic family can have a tramendous impact on your identiy and self-esteem. \n\nNo one ever wants to think that a family relationship can consist of dislike or "hatred" because of the blood you share with that family member.\n\nBut the reality is that toxic family relationships or family by blood do not always fit neatly into the fantasized picture frame society has promoted of family for many centuries.\n\nUnhealthy, dysfunctional, toxic, and evil family relationships can leave you with years worth of shame, doubt, and feelings of defeat. \n\nIn this live chat, I tease appart this concept.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
6:48 the self-fulfilling prophecy ("self-gaslighting")
10:03 the in-group and the out-group
12:58 projection within the family dynamic
22:27 why you seem to seek out toxic relationships (viewer question)
27:17 ACTIVATED PARTS OF THE BRAIN IN DISLIKE (amygdala & hippocampus)
32:38 FMRI and the science of dislike
45:31 WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU WHEN YOU ARE DISLIKED/REJECTED
Q&A in-between the discussion
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Mentioned In The Video:
1. The Journal of Neuropsychology: A Brain Mechanism for Hate
https://neuro.psychiatryonline.org/doi/10.1176/appi.neuropsych.20220121
2. The Psy The Psychology of Hate: Mor chology of Hate: Moral Concerns Diff al Concerns Differentiate Hate fr entiate Hate from
Dislike https://scholarworks.smith.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1170&context=psy_facpubs
3. The Dark Side of Close Relationships https://books.google.com/books?hl=en&lr=&id=K6yg_Lz5UMwC&oi=fnd&pg=PP1&dq=dark+relationships+research&ots=uQQbOh9bGl&sig=ycRRt7-VtUWxmDg-qH6UT-H9TaA#v=onepage&q=dark%20relationships%20research&f=false
4. What is a self-fulfilling prophecy https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-a-self-fulfilling-prophecy-6740420
5. In-group and out-group theory https://socialsci.libretexts.org/Bookshelves/Sociology/Introduction_to_Sociology/Sociology_(Boundless)/06%3A_Social_Groups_and_Organization/6.01%3A_Types_of_Social_Groups/6.1D%3A_In-Groups_and_Out-Groups#:~:text=In%20sociology%20and%20social%20psychology%2C%20in-groups%20and%20out-groups,own%20groups%2C%20a%20phenomenon%20known%20as%20in-group%20bias.
6. BOOK: The psychology of hate https://www.apa.org/pubs/books/4318017
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