11 UNEXPECTED WAYS DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY DYNAMICS AND LIES AFFECT YOU
198Dysfuntional family dynamics and relationships often get started when a family decides to create lies, hide lies, or keep lies going. \n\nIn some dysfunctional families, his can become an intergenerational trauma that can haunt your family for years in many different ways.\n\nMost people have secrets in their family --- but not all families lie. Although secrets are difficult -- especially when found out, family lies are often what breaks a family apart. \n\nIn this live chat, I discuss and breakdown what psychology tells us about lies and secrets in a dysfunctional family.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
4:33 Truth Bias (there is a deceiver and the deceived)
6:35 Common forms of lying (shared lies, individual lies, internal lies)
10:36 Lies vs Secrets
13:20 Secrets are often apart of most families (intentionally & unintentionally)
18:27 Pathological liar vs compulsive liar
20:17 Art of lying
21:10 THE FUNCTION OF LIES & SECRETS IN THE FAMILY
27:59 Embellishing, omitting, and "guarded privacy"(with example)
31:29 Emotional abuse and pattern of lying.
36:08 TYPICAL PATTERNS OF LYING IN A FAMILY
5 EFFECTS OF FAMILY LIES
5 SIGNS OF BEING LIED TO
***Discussion & question in-between the content
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Mentioned In The Video:
1. The relations between deception, narcissism and self-assessed lie- and
truth-related abilities
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8009107/
2. Deception is associated with reduced social connection
https://www.nature.com/articles/s44271-023-00021-0
3.The psychology of lying https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/B9780128012505000021
4. The art of lying https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-art-of-lying/
5. The science of deception: https://www.brainfacts.org/Archives/2013/The-Truth-About-Lies-The-Science-of-Deception
5. Toxic environments and human development: https://scholar.harvard.edu/files/dbusso/files/toxic_environments_and_human_development_1_0.pdf
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