WHY YOU CAN'T GET FREE FROM YOUR PARENT | Traumatic Bonding EXPLAINED | Psychotherapy Crash Course
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Traumatic bonding is a complicated topic.
"Why can't I get free from my parent?" is a question posed to me years ago while working with a dysfunctional family. It's a million dollar question that can result in many complicated answers.
Traumatic bonding isn't just something that happens in an unhealthy romantic relationship. Traumatic bonding can happen in any relationship that doesn't have or maintains proper boundaries and respect.
Have you ever wondered why you can't get free from your abusive and unhealthy parent?
Have you incorrectly labeled yourself "codependent," "enmeshed," or "weak?"
If so, this video is for you because I will explain, using a trauma-focused perspective, why you can't get free from your abusive or unhealthy parent.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
1:24 what is traumatic bonding with a parent
1:51 you are intwined
3:09 skewed perception of the relationship
4:07 risk factors
6:08 narcissism
6:31 over identifying
7:41 feeling indebted to them
8:13 "they need me"
8:51 justifying & protecting
9:51 wearing multiple hats & wanting to please
10:45 covering your needs/feelings
11:24 desiring what they cannot give you
12:15 SHARED PSYCHOSIS
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